谎言是丑陋的,但“善意的谎言”却是谎言中的“另类”,它是那么美丽、动人!大千世界,善意的谎言无所不在。大自然中:枯叶蝶把自己伪装成一片干枯的树叶,躲避天敌;斑马让自己全身布满条纹使自己容易隐藏;变色龙可以随环境变色,让自己不易被发现。这些都是弱者保护自己而“说”的善意的谎言,难道,你能说这些“善意的谎言”是丑陋的?当然,同大自然的“弱者们”一样,当我们的生命和财产受到威胁时,我们也会急中生智,用善意的谎言来保护自己。比如:当遇到劫匪绑架了我们的亲人进行敲诈勒索时,我们也会用善意的谎言稳住他,告诉他自己正在准备赎金,然后挂掉电话,悄悄报警,从而让坏人的阴谋落空……但是,作为有思想的人类,我们还有大自然所没有的另一种善意的谎言,他闪烁着人性的光芒,展现了强者对弱者的爱护和鼓励。譬如在《别饿坏了那匹马》的课文中,那位残疾青年见“我”卖马草换钱看书很困难,便谎称家中有马收下了马草,使“我”能够心安理得地在他的书摊看书;而《唯一的听众》里的老教授,为了鼓励作者,使他不再灰心懊恼,就假称自己是聋子,让作者大胆练习,最终成为一名真正的小提琴手;而现实生活中,医生善意的谎言也可以让陷入绝望的病人看到希望,从而走向新生……这样的例子不胜枚举,数不胜数。看到这些“强者”为了保护“弱者”的自尊心,帮助他们放下心理包袱,奔向光明而编造的“善意的谎言”,难道你不为之动容和感动?你能说这些“善意的谎言”不是美丽的?虽然,有些“善意的谎言”可以在关键时刻拯救一个人的生命,但是,在我眼里,最美最珍贵的却是那些“强者”为保护“弱者”所编造的“善意的谎言”。那些“善意的谎言”里包含着“强者”对“弱者”的爱护、关心和鼓励,闪烁着人性的光芒!它们是最美丽的!
在学习、工作中,大家总免不了要接触或使用论文吧,论文对于所有教育工作者,对于人类整体认识的提高有着重要的意义。写起论文来就毫无头绪?以下是我帮大家整理的有关善良的议论文素材,欢迎大家分享。
1、名人名言
一个热情的人,尤其是青年,过火是免不了的;只要心地善良、正直、胸襟宽广,能及时改正自己的判断,不固执己见,那就好了。———傅雷
惆怅隶属于善良,绝无惆怅感的人也许非常不平凡,但是毕竟非善良之辈。———刘心武
对于丑恶没有强烈憎恨的人,也不会对于美善有强烈的执著。———茅盾
善良的东西、美好的东西,能达到一种极致。在一定的时代,在一定的环境,可以达到极致。———孙犁
有善有恶是知,审美辨恶是格,为善去恶是致。———宋教仁
在一切道德品质之中,善良的本性在世界上是最需要的。———罗素
做一个善良的人,为群众去谋幸福。———高尔基
心地过于脆弱而且善良,有时无法做到非常诚实。———罗曼·罗兰
灵魂最美的音乐是善良。———罗曼·罗兰
善心生,亦惟劳乃乐也。———恽代英
没有单纯、善良和真实,就没有伟大。———列夫·托尔斯泰
没有善良———一个人给予另一个人的真正发自肺腑的温暖———就不可能有精神的美。———苏霍姆林斯基
2、经典素材
1、威廉·比尔的故事(观点提炼:善意的谎言呵护了弱小的心灵)
美国著名记者威廉·比尔曾经讲过一段自己的经历。
10岁那年,比尔成了孤儿。一天,靠卖报为生的比尔在纽约某电车站卖报,一个胖男子拿走了两份报纸,还戏弄比尔。之后,那个男子扬长而去。
这时,一辆马车停在比尔身边。车上一个眼里噙着泪花的妇人冲着电车骂道:“这该死的灭绝人性的东西。”然后,又俯身对比尔说:“孩子,我都看见了,你在这儿等着,我就回来。”比尔认出拿玫瑰花的妇人就是电影海报上的大明星梅·欧文小姐。
10分钟后,马车转回来了,女明星招呼比尔上了车,然后对马车夫说:“马克,给他讲讲你都干了些什么。”
“我一把揪住那家伙,”马克咬牙切齿地说,“左右开弓把他两眼揍了个乌青,又往他太阳穴补了一拳。报钱也追回来了。”说着,他把一枚硬币放在比尔的手中。
“孩子,你听我说,”梅?欧文对比尔说,“你不要因为碰到这种坏蛋就把人都看坏了。世上坏蛋是不少,但大多数都是好人———像你,像我。我们都是好人,是不是?”
好多年后,比尔回忆这一经历时说,“梅·欧文小姐是不可能追上电车的.,但是她的话、车夫的虚构是安慰弱小心灵的良药。靠了这些我才没有沉沦,没有一味地把世界连同自己恨死。”
2、红鼻子日(观点提炼:让善良在欢乐中闪光)
自从1988年以来,英国每两年有一个红鼻子日。出自以欢乐温暖人间这样一个意念,全国上下在这一天通过娱乐逗趣的方式,筹募善款,扶贫助弱。
今年3月11日是英国第十个红鼻子日。在当晚7时开始的电视节目汇演之前,全国已经售出了600万个塑料红鼻子,50万瓶新奇红色喷发水,15万件红鼻子日汗衫。
在电视节目开始之后三个小时,全国善款数字已经超过2100万英镑。长达8小时的电视节目汇演结束时,善款达到3700万,打破了往年红鼻子日欢乐夜的筹款纪录。而且,这还是英国公众在数周前对亚洲海啸捐出了2亿英镑巨款之后的募捐成绩。
早在红鼻子日之前,社会各方事实上已经为迎接这个大筹款日行动了。如薯片制造商Walkers几个月前便特别向市场推出多口味混合包装薯片,标明这个包装的薯片盈利将全部捐给红鼻子日做善款。英国电话公司的报时电话捐出十天电话费收入。
红鼻子日的特点,在于它提倡以赞助善款的方式换取任何快乐,而不是毫无回报地施舍。皇室第二继位人威廉王子就在今年的红鼻子日故意从马上摔下来,落地翻个筋斗,还得让全国电视观众一饱眼福,这样换取了可观的善款。从轻松玩笑中感受人间的善良欢乐,让欢乐带来人间温暖。这便是英国的红鼻子日的实质意义。
3、德国的“善良教育”(观点提炼:要重视善良品质的培养)
众所周知,德国是引发两次世界大战的“罪魁祸首”。所幸的是,德国各阶层能够深刻地反思这段历史,甚至因此格外重视对孩子善良品质的培养,并将其列为德国教育的有机组成部分。
爱护小动物是德国幼童接受的“善良教育”的第一课。在孩子刚刚学会走路时,不少德国家庭就特意为孩子喂养了小狗、小猫、小兔、小金鱼等小动物,并让孩子在亲自照料小动物的过程中,学会体贴入微地照顾弱小的生命,从而使孩子们从小就有 “善待生命”的意识。
同情、帮助弱小者也是德国人对孩子进行“善良教育”的另一重要内容。在成人社会的倡导、鼓励下,孩子们帮助盲人、老人过马路早已蔚然成风,为身有残疾的同学排忧解难也并不是什么新鲜事。
“宽容待人”被德国人普遍认定为一个人“善良品质”的一方面。一个叫雪丽的7岁小女孩在自己的生日晚会上遭到好友梅芙的无端抢白而感到大丢面子,因而试图报复以泄心头之恨。但后来在母亲的劝说下,她通过和梅芙谈心了解到:当时梅芙喂养的小兔子突然死去,心情十分沮丧,故难免“出言不逊”。在经过一番“将心比心”后,雪丽宽容地原谅了梅芙,两个小伙伴的友谊更深厚了。
4、世界名曲的诞生(观点提炼:善良的成就)
1814年的一个夜晚,一个酷爱音乐的年轻人走过维也纳街头。因为家境贫穷,买不起钢琴,他只好每天到一所小学去练钢琴。他喜欢作曲,可是有时拮据得连作曲的纸都没钱买。此刻,他正在回家的路上为生计犯愁,忽然看见一家旧货店旁站着一个衣衫褴褛的小孩,手中拿着一本书和一件旧衣在叫卖。年轻人认出这个小孩曾在他教学的唱诗班当过歌童,他顿时鼻子发酸,巨大的同情心驱使他不由自主地在单薄的衣衫里摸出了仅有的一点古尔盾,买下了那本旧书。年轻人边走边看那本书,竟发现其中有大诗人歌德的诗作《野玫瑰》。他一遍又一遍地朗诵,整个身心被诗的意境溶化了,一段清新而亲切的旋律从灵魂深处飘了出来。
这个青年就是被人称为“歌曲之王”的舒伯特,他写的这首《野玫瑰》名曲成为世界音乐宝库中的瑰宝,其手稿价值连城。但是,有多少人知道,这首名曲的诞生源自他的一颗善良之心呢?在一切道德品质中,善良的本性在世界上是最需要的,因为它能唤起人道生活的复苏。
5、蚂蚁报恩
在一个炎热的夏季里,有一只蚂蚁不幸被风刮落到池塘里,命在旦夕。正巧,池塘边的一颗杨树上停着一只鸽子。这只鸽子看到了蚂蚁挣扎的情景。
“好可怜噢!我帮一帮它吧!”鸽子赶忙将一片杨树叶子丢进池塘。小蚂蚁费力地爬上叶子,叶子慢慢漂到池边,蚂蚁便得救了。
“多亏鸽子的救助啊!”蚂蚁始终记得鸽子的救命之恩。虽然它身体弱小,力量也不够,但是,它下定了决心,总有一天它会报答鸽子的。
过了很久,有位猎人来了,用枪瞄准树上的鸽子,但是鸽子一点儿也不知道。这时蚂蚁爬上猎人的脚,狠狠咬了一口。
“哎呀!好痛!啊!”猎人一痛,就把子弹打歪了。使得鸽子逃过一劫,蚂蚁也报答了鸽子的救命之恩。
也许只是你的一丝善念,也许只是你的举手之劳,无论怎样,善良的人总会得到善良的报答。
近年来,人们对诚信的呼吁越来越强烈,这也许并不是中国古人的诚信记录比现在好得多,而是现在人们的诚信意识在缓慢地苏醒。这恰如分蛋糕一样,早些时候,我们的面前其实没有蛋糕,所以大家一团和气,没有什么可以争执的东西。现在我们所处的时代,大概是有了一个蛋糕可供众人分配,但蛋糕不够大,并不能保证每一个人可分得心满意足的一块,况且又没有特别清晰可信的分蛋糕的规则,结果众生你争我夺甚至尔虞我诈,无非是想让自己的那一块做得大一些,自然,别人的蛋糕就少了,这个时期,人们对诚信的呼唤最为迫切。随着社会的逐渐富足,蛋糕做大了,分蛋糕的规则也明确了,社会诚信就会好得多。因此,中国人现在如此迫切地呼唤诚信,并非倒退,而是我们正在爬坡。 古时候杜甫发出“安得广厦千万间,大庇天下寒士俱欢颜”时,他作为寒士之一是有切肤之痛的;而白居易吟唱“地不知寒人要暖,少把人衣作地衣”时,我相信他尽管位高爵厚,但也是出自真诚的。因为我们曾经太贫苦,所以诚信可能总是一种在梦中浮现的奢侈品。 现在中国渐渐地走向富裕了,因此诚信问题一下子就凸现出来,我们身边几乎充斥了各种不诚信的企业和个人,各种极其富有想象力的欺,例如给馒头里放点洗衣粉;给猪喂点瘦肉精或多多注水;给甲鱼鳝鱼喂点避孕药等等,让人叹为观止。各种企业的虚假广告、产品和利润,更是层出不穷,以至于有人发起寻找中国股市中令人尊敬的上市公司这样的事。为什么诚信突然缺失而我们如此迫切地呼唤诚信? 现时人们对诚信的渴望,实际上具有某种预言的性质。如果我们仍然一无所有或者要斗私批修,那么我们自身尊重生命、财产和自由的意识就仍然沉睡未醒,恰恰是改革开放20年,唤醒了人们内心沉睡的意识,而在醒来时我们又处于蛋糕尚不够大的年代,所以就有了各种不诚信的纷争,其实背后,不过是个利字也!但这依然是一种进步而不是倒退。我们常常说美国等过国民诚信到比较傻的程度,但百年前美国人也并非现在这样有诚信,以前美国的汽车旅馆中,手纸、茶杯乃至毛巾的不翼而飞,几乎是家常便饭,在物质财富很丰裕后,这样盗窃细小财物的行为就少得多了。中国许多地方也是一样,像福建晋江、浙江温州等等,其地方产品都曾经是假冒伪劣的代名词,但现在地方经济和法治发展到一定阶段,他们自己就起来要讲究诚信,并且已经和当年之吴下阿蒙有了天壤之别。这大概就是我们所说的衣食足然后知荣辱,仓廪实然后知礼节的意思吧! 如何呼唤诚信回归?有两手政策,一手当然是做大蛋糕,让每个国民至少有能维持温饱的一份,这大约就是“发展才是硬道理”吧!另一手是要确立分蛋糕的规则,否则朝令夕改,个人和企业就难以有讲诚信的基础。一个蛋糕如何才能分得公平?这需要权力的制衡机制,例如一个人拥有先切蛋糕的权力时另一个人相应地应拥有先挑蛋糕的权力,这样一块蛋糕才能分割得均匀。没有制衡的权力,我们就不能期望权力拥有者会卑微谨慎地使用权力,而多半会以权谋私。这样分蛋糕过程中,如果立规矩者没有规矩,那么社会诚信的基石就非常不稳固,并且最终影响到国民们努力做大蛋糕的辛苦劳作。 所以,中国呼唤诚信,就需要“两手抓,两手都要硬”,没有诚信规则,社会就会蜕变为水泊梁山的状态,即使是君子,也只能大块吃肉,大碗喝酒,否则其他人就要对其实施“君子可欺之以方”;有了诚信规则,大家才能无论内心愿意或不愿意,至少行为上要可信。两手硬就是说发展经济要硬,完善市场经济框架也要硬,政府诚信的蚀空或缺失,始终是一个社会现代化和文明化的致命软肋。
ONCE upon a time, in a very far-off country, there lived a merchant1 who had been so fortunate in all his undertakings that he was enormously rich. As he had, however, six sons and six daughters,2 he found that his money was not too much to let them all have everything they fancied, as they were accustomed to do.But one day a most unexpected misfortune befell them. Their house caught fire3 and was speedily burnt to the ground, with all the splendid furniture, the books, pictures, gold, silver, and precious goods it contained; and this was only the beginning of their troubles. Their father, who had until this moment prospered in all ways, suddenly lost every ship he had upon the sea, either by dint of pirates, shipwreck, or fire. Then he heard that his clerks in distant countries, whom he trusted entirely, had proved unfaithful; and at last from great wealth he fell into the direst poverty.All that he had left was a little house in a desolate place at least a hundred leagues4 from the town in which he had lived, and to this he was forced to retreat with his children, who were in despair at the idea of leading such a different life. Indeed, the daughters at first hoped that their friends, who had been so numerous while they were rich, would insist on their staying in their houses now they no longer possessed one. But they soon found that they were left alone, and that their former friends even attributed their misfortunes to their own extravagance, and showed no intention of offering them any help. So nothing was left for them but to take their departure to the cottage,5 which stood in the midst of a dark forest,6 and seemed to be the most dismal place upon the face of the earth.As they were too poor to have any servants,7 the girls had to work hard, like peasants, and the sons, for their part, cultivated the fields to earn their living. Roughly clothed, and living in the simplest way, the girls regretted unceasingly the luxuries and amusements of their former life; only the youngest8 tried to be brave and cheerful. She had been as sad as anyone when misfortune overtook her father, but, soon recovering her natural gaiety, she set to work to make the best of things, to amuse her father and brothers as well as she could, and to try to persuade her sisters to join her in dancing and singing. But they would do nothing of the sort, and, because she was not as doleful as themselves, they declared that this miserable life was all she was fit for. But she was really far prettier and cleverer than they were; indeed, she was so lovely that she was always called Beauty.9After two years, when they were all beginning to get used to their new life, something happened to disturb their tranquillity. Their father received the news that one of his ships, which he had believed to be lost, had come safely into port with a rich cargo. All the sons and daughters at once thought that their poverty was at an end, and wanted to set out directly for the town; but their father, who was more prudent, begged them to wait a little, and, though it was harvest time,10 and he could ill be spared, determined to go himself first, to make inquiries. Only the youngest daughter had any doubt but that they would soon again be as rich as they were before, or at least rich enough to live comfortably in some town where they would find amusement and gay companions once more. So they all loaded their father with commissions for jewels and dresses which it would have taken a fortune to buy; only Beauty, feeling sure that it was of no use, did not ask for anything. Her father, noticing her silence, said: "And what shall I bring for you, Beauty?""The only thing I wish for is to see you come home safely," she answered.But this only vexed her sisters, who fancied she was blaming them for having asked for such costly things. Her father, however, was pleased, but as he thought that at her age she certainly ought to like pretty presents, he told her to choose something."Well, dear father," she said, "as you insist upon it, I beg that you will bring me a rose.11 I have not seen one since we came here, and I love them so much."So the merchant set out and reached the town as quickly as possible, but only to find that his former companions, believing him to be dead, had divided between them the goods which the ship had brought; and after six months12 of trouble and expense he found himself as poor as when he started, having been able to recover only just enough to pay the cost of his journey. To make matters worse, he was obliged to leave the town in the most terrible weather, so that by the time he was within a few leagues of his home he was almost exhausted with cold and fatigue. Though he knew it would take some hours to get through the forest, he was so anxious to be at his journey's end that he resolved to go on; but night overtook him, and the deep snow13 and bitter frost made it impossible for his horse to carry him any further. Not a house was to be seen; the only shelter he could get was the hollow trunk of a great tree, and there he crouched all the night which seemed to him the longest he had ever known. In spite of his weariness the howling of the wolves kept him awake, and even when at last the day broke he was not much better off, for the falling snow had covered up every path, and he did not know which way to turn.At length he made out some sort of track, and though at the beginning it was so rough and slippery that he fell down more than once, it presently became easier, and led him into an avenue of trees which ended in a splendid castle.14 It seemed to the merchant very strange that no snow had fallen in the avenue, which was entirely composed of orange trees,15 covered with flowers and fruit. When he reached the first court of the castle he saw before him a flight of agate steps, and went up them, and passed through several splendidly furnished rooms. The pleasant warmth of the air revived him, and he felt very hungry; but there seemed to be nobody in all this vast and splendid palace whom he could ask to give him something to eat. Deep silence16 reigned everywhere, and at last, tired of roaming through empty rooms and galleries, he stopped in a room smaller than the rest, where a clear fire was burning and a couch was drawn up closely to it. Thinking that this must be prepared for someone who was expected, he sat down to wait till he should come, and very soon fell into a sweet sleep.When his extreme hunger wakened him after several hours, he was still alone; but a little table, upon which was a good dinner, had been drawn up close to him, and, as he had eaten nothing for twenty-four hours, he lost no time in beginning his meal, hoping that he might soon have an opportunity of thanking his considerate entertainer, whoever it might be. But no one appeared, and even after another long sleep, from which he awoke completely refreshed, there was no sign of anybody, though a fresh meal of dainty cakes and fruit was prepared upon the little table at his elbow. Being naturally timid, the silence began to terrify him, and he resolved to search once more through all the rooms; but it was of no use. Not even a servant was to be seen; there was no sign of life in the palace! He began to wonder what he should do, and to amuse himself by pretending that all the treasures he saw were his own, and considering how he would divide them among his children. Then he went down into the garden, and though it was winter everywhere else, here the sun shone, and the birds sang, and the flowers bloomed, and the air was soft and sweet. The merchant, in ecstacies with all he saw and heard, said to himself:"All this must be meant for me. I will go this minute and bring my children to share all these delights."In spite of being so cold and weary when he reached the castle, he had taken his horse to the stable and fed it. Now he thought he would saddle it for his homeward journey, and he turned down the path which led to the stable. This path had a hedge of roses on each side of it, and the merchant thought he had never seen or smelt such exquisite flowers. They reminded him of his promise to Beauty, and he stopped and had just gathered one to take to her when he was startled by a strange noise behind him. Turning round, he saw a frightful Beast,17 which seemed to be very angry and said, in a terrible voice:"Who told you that you might gather my roses? Was it not enough that I allowed you to be in my palace and was kind to you? This is the way you show your gratitude, by stealing my flowers! But your insolence shall not go unpunished." The merchant, terrified by these furious words, dropped the fatal rose, and, throwing himself on his knees, cried: "Pardon me, noble sir. I am truly grateful to you for your hospitality, which was so magnificent that I could not imagine that you would be offended by my taking such a little thing as a rose." But the Beast's anger was not lessened by this speech."You are very ready with excuses and flattery," he cried; "but that will not save you from the death you deserve.""Alas!" thought the merchant, "if my daughter could only know what danger her rose has brought me into!"And in despair he began to tell the Beast all his misfortunes, and the reason of his journey, not forgetting to mention Beauty's request."A king's ransom would hardly have procured all that my other daughters asked." he said: "but I thought that I might at least take Beauty her rose. I beg you to forgive me, for you see I meant no harm."The Beast considered for a moment, and then he said, in a less furious tone:"I will forgive you on one condition -- that is, that you will give me one of your daughters."18"Ah!" cried the merchant, "if I were cruel enough to buy my own life at the expense of one of my children's, what excuse could I invent to bring her here?""No excuse would be necessary," answered the Beast. "If she comes at all she must come willingly.19 On no other condition will I have her. See if any one of them is courageous enough, and loves you well enough to come and save your life. You seem to be an honest man, so I will trust you to go home. I give you a month to see if either of your daughters will come back with you and stay here, to let you go free. If neither of them is willing, you must come alone, after bidding them good-by for ever, for then you will belong to me. And do not imagine that you can hide from me, for if you fail to keep your word I will come and fetch you!" added the Beast grimly.The merchant accepted this proposal, though he did not really think any of his daughters could be persuaded to come. He promised to return at the time appointed, and then, anxious to escape from the presence of the Beast, he asked permission to set off at once. But the Beast answered that he could not go until next day."Then you will find a horse ready for you," he said. "Now go and eat your supper, and await my orders."The poor merchant, more dead than alive, went back to his room, where the most delicious supper was already served on the little table which was drawn up before a blazing fire. But he was too terrified to eat, and only tasted a few of the dishes, for fear the Beast should be angry if he did not obey his orders. When he had finished he heard a great noise in the next room, which he knew meant that the Beast was coming. As he could do nothing to escape his visit, the only thing that remained was to seem as little afraid as possible; so when the Beast appeared and asked roughly if he had supped well, the merchant answered humbly that he had, thanks to his host's kindness. Then the Beast warned him to remember their agreement, and to prepare his daughter exactly for what she had to expect."Do not get up to-morrow," he added, "until you see the sun and hear a golden bell ring. Then you will find your breakfast waiting for you here, and the horse you are to ride will be ready in the courtyard. He will also bring you back again when you come with your daughter a month hence. Farewell. Take a rose to Beauty, and remember your promise!"The merchant was only too glad when the Beast went away, and though he could not sleep for sadness, he lay down until the sun rose. Then, after a hasty breakfast, he went to gather Beauty's rose, and mounted his horse, which carried him off so swiftly that in an instant he had lost sight of the palace, and he was still wrapped in gloomy thoughts when it stopped before the door of the cottage.His sons and daughters, who had been very uneasy at his long absence, rushed to meet him, eager to know the result of his journey, which, seeing him mounted upon a splendid horse and wrapped in a rich mantle, they supposed to be favorable. He hid the truth from them at first, only saying sadly to Beauty as he gave her the rose:"Here is what you asked me to bring you; you little know what it has cost."But this excited their curiosity so greatly that presently he told them his adventures from beginning to end, and then they were all very unhappy. The girls lamented loudly over their lost hopes, and the sons declared that their father should not return to this terrible castle, and began to make plans for killing the Beast if it should come to fetch him. But he reminded them that he had promised20 to go back. Then the girls were very angry with Beauty, and said it was all her fault, and that if she had asked for something sensible this would never have happened, and complained bitterly that they should have to suffer for her folly.Poor Beauty, much distressed, said to them:"I have, indeed, caused this misfortune, but I assure you I did it innocently. Who could have guessed that to ask for a rose in the middle of summer would cause so much misery? But as I did the mischief it is only just that I should suffer for it. I will therefore go back with my father21 to keep his promise."At first nobody would hear of this arrangement, and her father and brothers, who loved her dearly, declared that nothing should make them let her go; but Beauty was firm. As the time drew near she divided all her little possessions between her sisters, and said good-by to everything she loved, and when the fatal day came she encouraged and cheered her father as they mounted together the horse which had brought him back. It seemed to fly rather than gallop, but so smoothly that Beauty was not frightened; indeed, she would have enjoyed the journey if she had not feared what might happen to her at the end of it. Her father still tried to persuade her to go back, but in vain. While they were talking the night fell, and then, to their great surprise, wonderful colored lights began to shine in all directions, and splendid fireworks blazed out before them; all the forest was illuminated by them, and even felt pleasantly warm, though it had been bitterly cold before. This lasted until they reached the avenue of orange trees, where were statues holding flaming torches, and when they got nearer to the palace they saw that it was illuminated from the roof to the ground, and music sounded softly from the courtyard."The Beast must be very hungry," said Beauty, trying to laugh, "if he makes all this rejoicing over the arrival of his prey." But, in spite of her anxiety, she could not help admiring all the wonderful things she saw.The horse stopped at the foot of the flight of steps leading to the terrace, and when they had dismounted her father led her to the little room he had been in before, where they found a splendid fire burning, and the table daintily spread with a delicious supper.The merchant knew that this was meant for them, and Beauty, who was rather less frightened now that she had passed through so many rooms and seen nothing of the Beast, was quite willing to begin, for her long ride had made her very hungry. But they had hardly finished their meal when the noise of the Beast's footsteps was heard approaching, and Beauty clung to her father in terror, which became all the greater when she saw how frightened he was. But when the Beast really appeared, though she trembled at the sight of him, she made a great effort to hide her terror, and saluted him respectfully.This evidently pleased the Beast. After looking at her he said, in a tone that might have struck terror into the boldest heart, though he did not seem to be angry:"Good-evening, old man. Good-evening, Beauty."The merchant was too terrified to reply, but Beauty answered sweetly: "Good-evening, Beast.""Have you come willingly?" asked the Beast. "Will you be content to stay here when your father goes away?"Beauty answered bravely that she was quite prepared to stay."I am pleased with you," said the Beast. "As you have come of your own accord, you may stay.22 As for you, old man," he added, turning to the merchant, "at sunrise tomorrow you will take your departure. When the bell rings get up quickly and eat your breakfast, and you will find the same horse waiting to take you home; but remember that you must never expect to see my palace again."Then turning to Beauty, he said:"Take your father into the next room, and help him to choose everything you think your brothers and sisters would like to have. You will find two traveling-trunks there; fill them as full as you can. It is only just that you should send them something very precious as a remembrance of yourself."Then he went away, after saying, "Good-by, Beauty; good-by, old man"; and though Beauty was beginning to think with great dismay of her father's departure, she was afraid to disobey the Beast's orders; and they went into the next room, which had shelves and cupboards all round it. They were greatly surprised at the riches it contained. There were splendid dresses fit for a queen, with all the ornaments that were to be worn with them; and when Beauty opened the cupboards she was quite dazzled by the gorgeous jewels that lay in heaps upon every shelf. After choosing a vast quantity, which she divided between her sisters -- for she had made a heap of the wonderful dresses for each of them -- she opened the last chest, which was full of gold.23"I think, father," she said, "that, as the gold will be more useful to you, we had better take out the other things again, and fill the trunks with it." So they did this; but the more they put in the more room there seemed to be, and at last they put back all the jewels and dresses they had taken out, and Beauty even added as many more of the jewels as she could carry at once; and then the trunks were not too full, but they were so heavy that an elephant could not have carried them! "The Beast was mocking us," cried the merchant; "he must have pretended to give us all these things, knowing that I could not carry them away.""Let us wait and see," answered Beauty. "I cannot believe that he meant to deceive us. All we can do is to fasten them up and leave them ready."So they did this and returned to the little room, where, to their astonishment, they found breakfast ready. The merchant ate his with a good appetite, as the Beast's generosity made him believe that he might perhaps venture to come back soon and see Beauty. But she felt sure that her father was leaving her for ever, so she was very sad when the bell rang sharply for the second time, and warned them that the time had come for them to part. They went down into the courtyard, where two horses were waiting, one loaded with the two trunks, the other for him to ride. They were pawing the ground in their impatience to start, and the merchant was forced to bid Beauty a hasty farewell; and as soon as he was mounted he went off at such a pace that she lost sight of him in an instant.Then Beauty began to cry, and wandered sadly back to her own room. But she soon found that she was very sle
谁能说善意的谎言是欺?美国作家海林在其作品《最后一片枯叶》中描写了一个动人的故事:透过病房的窗子,病人可以看到风中摇曳的树木。枯叶一片片地落下去,病人将残存的枯叶看成是自己生命的象征,她想,当最后一片枯叶飘落时,自己的生命也就结束了。老画家得知此事后,便在连接树枝的墙上画下一片叶子…… 当一位身患绝症的病人,被医生判了死刑时,他的父母、爱人、子女以及所有的亲人,都不会直接地告诉他:“生命已无法挽救”,“最多还能在这个世界上活多久”之类的话。虽然这些都是实话,但是谁会那样残忍地如同法官宣判犯人死刑一样,向已经在病痛中的亲人以实情相告呢。这时,大家就会形成一个统一的战线,闭口不谈实情,而以善意的谎言来使病人对治疗充满希望,让病人在一个平和的心态中度过那残年余日。难道这会有碍于诚信吗!看过一篇电视报道,说的是一个老妈妈得了肾病,如果不换肾的话生命就会受到威胁,这时大儿子站了出来要求给妈妈捐肾,这可疼坏了老妈妈,老妈妈强烈反对,说要是这样自己还不如死了算了.没办法只能等待各种条件都比较匹配的肾源,可是要等到这样的肾源真是很不容易,儿子怕耽误了母亲的病情,于是和家人商量后,过了母亲.把自己的一个年轻的肾脏捐给了母亲,手术成功后家人还是瞒着这位老妈妈的,最让人感动的是母亲和儿子住在隔壁病房,妈妈是不知道的,当妈妈想见大儿子时,家人只是她说儿子去出差了,看完这个报道我被感动的哭了,朋友们,难道这样的谎言有碍请对方辩友举出实例,有谁因为善意的谎言而受到伤害?造成诚信的失损?于诚信么?说上个世纪一架美国的运输机在沙漠里遇到沙尘暴袭击迫降九名乘客和一名驾驶员陷于绝望之中;求生的本能使他们为争夺有限的干粮和水而动起干戈. 紧急关头,一个临时搭乘飞机的乘客站出来说:”大家不要惊慌,我是飞机设计师,只要大家齐心协力听我指挥,就可以修好飞机”.这好比一针强心剂,稳定大家的情绪,他们自觉节省水和干粮;一切井然有序,大家团结起来和风沙困难作斗争. 十几天过去了,飞机并没有修好;但有一队往返沙漠里的商人驼队经过这里时搭救他们.几天后,人们才发现,那个临时乘客根本就不是什么飞机设计师,他是一个对飞机一无所知的小学教师。如果这时没有那一些话,那么他们很有可能因水资源和食物告急,而有许多人葬身沙漠。善意的谎言是出于善良的动机,以维护别人利益为目的和出发点。本身善良的人在某种状态下“被逼”说出的谎言是善意的,这种谎言对主体来说是一种友善,一种关心。显然,善意的谎言无碍诚信。善意的谎言,是赋予人类灵性,体现情感的细腻和思想的成熟,促使人坚强执著,不由自主去努力去争取,最后战胜脆弱,绝处逢生。 善意的谎言能让一个患有绝症的患者绝处逢生,能给予别人一丝丝希望。 说谎是什么?如果不分青红皂白就定义为:不实事求是,说假话,夸大,掩盖,歪曲事实真相。那我们的生活就充满了大大小小的谎言,从煽动动性极强的广告到情人间的甜言蜜语,无一不充斥着夸张的言辞,就连文学作品本身也成了谎言。人人心中都有谎言的标准,怎样把握这个度,是我们首先思考的。与动机不良的谎言相比,善意的谎言会使人们的感情变的更融洽,和谐,生活变的更有滋有味,它可以巧妙的避免冲突,实现情感沟通和顺利交往,又怎样妨碍诚信了呢?
善意的谎言反方辩词:1、善意的谎言是出于善良的动机,以维护他人利益为目的和出发点。众所周知,矛盾有普遍性和特殊性之分,特殊性包含与特殊性之中而区别于普遍性。就其善意的谎言本身的性质决定它并非恶益,而是建立在内心之诚,之善的基础上,而恶意的谎言是为说谎者谋取利益,以强烈的利欲,薄弱的理性,把他人仅作为手段,不惜伤害他人的行为。本身善良的人在某种状态下“被逼”说出的谎言是善意的,这种谎言对主体来说是一种友善,一种关心。所以,善意的谎言无碍诚信。2、善意的谎言是一种处世的方式,是一种替人着想的品质的体现。一个身患绝症的病人的亲友总是用善意的谎言将他的病情说的很轻,鼓励他配合医生治疗,相信在座各位不会因此而指责他们不诚信吧?相反是恶意的真实,一个俘虏在敌人的利诱下说出了己方的兵力部署,有人认为他诚信吗?对敌人的诚欣就是对国家的背叛啊!3、善意的谎言虽然是谎言的一种,但是不能说谎言就一定有碍诚信,要具体问题具体分析。诚信之所以得到大家的推崇,是因为它是善意的不欺,善意的谎言在表面看来,似乎有碍诚信原则,但从本质上看,它之所以存在,是因为说出真话有碍善良的原则。4、没有谎言的世界如同没有灰尘的地球。我方同意善意的谎言无碍诚信并不等于我们提倡它,其关键在于度。
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善意谎言的好处辩论反方20条观点如下:
1、善意的谎言是出于善良的动机,以维护他人利益为目的和出发点。
2、本身善良的人在某种状态下“被逼”说出的谎言是善意的,这种谎言对主体来说是一种友善,一种关心。而心术不正的人,不管如何伪装,如何花言巧语,如何绞尽脑汁为自己恶意的谎言冠上善意的高帽,其所说的谎言都带有恶意目的性。显然,善意的谎言无碍诚信。
3、善意的谎言是一种处世的方式,是一种替人着想的品质的体现。
4、诚信之所以得到大家的推崇,是因为它是善意的不欺,善意的谎言在表面看来,似乎有碍诚信原则,但从本质上看,它之所以存在,是因为说出真话有碍善良的原则。
5、善意的谎言与诚信,实际是对立统一的关系,而那种所谓的违背恰恰为诚信提供了有益的补充,并不是有碍,打个比方:规定马路上同一方向的行人只能占有半条马路,并不有碍大家的通行啊!
6、没有谎言的世界如同没有灰尘的地球。我方同意善意的谎言无碍诚信并不等于我们提倡它,其关键在于度。
7、众所周知,矛盾有普遍性和特殊性之分,特殊性包含与特殊性之中而区别于普遍性。就其善意的谎言本身的性质决定它并非恶益,而是建立在内心之诚,之善的基础上,而恶意的谎言是为说谎者谋取利益,以强烈的利欲,薄弱的理性,把他人仅作为手段,不惜伤害他人的行为。
8、善意的谎言是美丽的这种谎言不是欺不是居心叵测。当我们为了他人的幸福和希望而适度地撒一些小谎的时候,谎言即变为理解、尊重和宽容,而且具有神奇的力量,没有任何的不纯洁。
9、善意的谎言是出于美好愿望的谎言,是人生的滋养品,也是信念的原动力。它让人从心里燃起希望之火,也让人确信世界上有爱、有信任、有感动!善意的谎言能让人找到用笑面对生活的理由。
10、善意的谎言,是赋予人类灵性,体现情感的细腻和思想的成熟,促使人坚强执着,不由自主去努力去争取,最后战胜脆弱,绝处逢生。善意的谎言能让一个患有绝症的患者绝处逢生,能给予别人一丝丝的希望。
11、谎言,说谎是欺,欺是不道德的,不道德的事不得人心,这些都是打小师长们就谆谆教海过。但我们扪心自问,又有谁没有说过谎言呢?
12、我们知道,人们身处在这个社会,背负着许许多多的义务,而义务与义务之间有时候是会存在矛盾的,当一个义务凌驾于另一个义务之上时,就要缓解另一个义务。因此,善意的谎言的本质是一种更紧迫更重要的义务要实施,而以缓解诚信义务为代价。
13、善意的谎言会使人们的感情变得更融洽,和谐,生活变得更有滋有味,它可以巧妙地避免冲突,实现情感沟通和顺利交往,又怎样妨碍诚信了呢?
14、善意的谎言让人重拾自信,有时还能救活一个即将精神崩溃的人。显然,善意的谎言无碍诚信。善意的谎言能燃起人们希望的的火焰,谁又能说它不是善意的呢?
15、我们教育孩子不可以撒谎 但很多人忘记告诉他们 世界上还有一种善意的谎言 善良的人们想一想 我们长这么大撒了多少次善意的谎言为了不让人家尴尬 为了不让人家难受 或者为了不让自己无地自容 我们伪过啊 我们虚过啊但我们是善良的人!
16、善意的谎言是美丽的。谎言即变为理解、尊重和宽容。出于美好愿望的谎言,是人生的滋养品,也是信念的原动力。它给人们带来希望给人以力量,也让人确信世界上有关爱、有信任、有感动。
17、善意的谎言,是赋予人类灵性,体现情感的细腻和思想的成熟,使人坚强。善意的谎言具有神奇的力量,它可以鼓舞人们一次一次继续努力,为了心中的梦想绝不轻言放弃,从而对未来充满希望。
18、善意的谎言的好处是可以让人们找到生活的乐趣。
19、善意的谎言能让人找到用笑面对生活的理由。善意的谎言,是赋予人类灵性,体现情感的细腻和思想的成熟,促使人坚强执著,不由自主去努力去争取,最后战胜脆弱,绝处逢生。
20、善意的谎言是为了正当的集体利益,在不影响其他团体的正当利益和触犯法律的情况下,善意的谎言十分有必要。
分手不,她不合适你。就这么简单。
善意的谎言?你别告诉我你和别的女人有不清不楚的关系,怕她知道了伤心,不告诉她,如果是这样那就不是善意的谎言而是恶意的欺
女孩真的的嫉妒那些的啊。你可以说实话她听。或许你再在你空间写出你对她是一心一意的。适当的时候认真的对她,你心里只有她一个人。一定要认真,真心的说。别太儿戏。祝你一切顺利。
你对女朋友编造了善良的谎言。被女朋友发现。不管这个谎言是恶意的还是善意的,但毕竟是谎言。所以女朋友会生你的气。我重新考虑一下你们的关系。我不知道你是否经常会给女的女朋友编造谎言。哎。如果是经常这样做,我觉得你的女朋友确实是应该考虑关系了。能不能发展,能不能长期跟一个边做谎言的人在一起。这对于谁来讲都会考虑的。做人要诚实。交友。要真诚。尤其是男女朋友。更应该体现出真诚。只有真诚才能换来真意。只有感情纯真才能达到。恋情的成功。没有恋情怎么能发展成婚姻和家庭的这个结果呢?比所以不管你是善意的谎言,还是恶意的谎言,都带有一定的欺性。这对谁来讲?也是感觉到非常恐惧。和害怕长期以往。会被对方失去了安全感。所以你应该棘手的像你的女朋友承认错误。坦白的说明你的用意。化解你们之间的矛盾。打消他考虑你们关系的念头。
素材一:有一位登山者,在途中遇上了。他深知不尽快找到避风处,非冻死不可。他走啊走,腿已经迈不开了。就在这时,脚碰到了一个硬梆梆的东西,扒开雪一看,竟是一个快冻死的人。登山者犯难了:是继续向前,还是停下来援救这个陌生人?在心灵深处翻江倒海之后,他毅然作出决定:脱下手套,给那个人按摩。最后,两人互相搀扶,走出了困境。素材二:一天,天空乌云密布,不久后就下起了倾盆大雨。因为腿部的残疾,一位年迈的乞丐来不及避雨,只能看着如注的大雨叹息不已。就在这时,在老乞丐的头上,出现了一把紫色的雨伞,老人疑惑地抬起头,看到一位女孩正微笑着看着自己,为自己撑伞-------可不要以为这是电视上播放的公益广告,这是发生在江苏省苏州市的真实一幕。这位为老乞丐撑伞的女孩,也被网友们亲切地成为“最美女孩”。也许,她并不拥有多么美丽的容貌,但是她的心灵,一定是最美最美的。虽然,这只是一个小小的善举,但是却折射出了人心的善良,诠释了这个平凡的女孩的最最善良的心灵。当我看到这一则报道时,也从心底里敬佩这一位女孩,从这位女孩的身上散发出来一股无限美好的魅力,这,就是善良的魅力。这种魅力,温暖人心,让许许多多人们为之动容.
善良是高尚的美德,它并没有错。错的是拥有善良的,他们没有善待他们的善良,错的是他们。如果不能善待善良,一昧地善良,还不如舍弃善良。如果不能做到,善良这种东西,不要更好。下面一起随我来欣赏关于“善良”为话题的 议论文 作文 吧。 善良为话题的议论文1:善待善良 我们从小就被教导要善良,从此,善良在很多人心里落了根。他们虽然非常的善良纯真,没有一点害人之心,但是往往也没有防人之心。那些人就像是温室里长的花儿,认为自己只要善良就好,只知道要善良,而不会善待自己的善良。 不单是人,动物也是如此。它们的本性就是善良,比如关心同伴。但是,动物的善良被人类所利用,好人的善良被坏人利用,往往没什么好下场。 我昨晚在电视上看到一个真实的 故事 。讲的是一个女孩,从小就被母亲教导,多才多艺。长大后很有本事,她相信自己有一个美好的未来。这个女孩的梦想是当一个经纪人,但是她的母亲在北京给她找了另外一个工作,虽也没说不让她当经纪人,可是那是女孩以为妈妈不会同意她当经纪人,听信了一个陌生人的话。这个陌生人和她刚认识不久,他说他可以在上海替她找一个经纪人的职位,女孩相信了他,跟着他来到上海。之后,那个男孩借着种种借口,走女孩的钱,还使她不能脱身。后来女孩和那个男孩都死了,至今原因不明。那个女孩本应该有个光明的前途,她很有本事,但是她太善良了,她的善良被别人利用了,她并没有善待她的善良。 动物的善良常常被人类利用。比如麻雀,它们身体轻巧,不易捕捉,人有时会找来几只麻雀,设下陷阱。麻雀很看重同伴,一般来说会停在那几只麻雀旁边,就算感到一点不对劲,也会飞过去。这时,人就冲过来,抓住麻雀。麻雀是很善良的,它们想去救它们的同伴,但是它们这种心态被人利用,导致它们的悲剧。它们也没有善待善良。 善良是高尚的美德,它并没有错。错的是拥有善良的,他们没有善待他们的善良,错的是他们。如果不能善待善良,一昧地善良,还不如舍弃善良。如果不能做到,善良这种东西,不要更好。 作为人类,作为善良的拥有者,应该善待自己的善良,善待他人的善良,善待所有人的善良。善待善良吧,那样会更好的贯彻自己的善良! 善良为话题的议论文2:善良与人 人世间最宝贵的是什么?法国作家雨果说得好:是善良。这三字经里说:人之初,性本善。每个人的本性就是一个善字。善良是历史中稀有的珍珠,善良的人几乎优于伟大的人。这么说来,善良与人的关系也就十分密切。 你也许会问,如果人世间缺少善良这种品质,那么世界将会变成什么样?这个问题在实际生活当中也都是显而易见的。善良的人懂得爱护人的生命,尊重人的尊严和权利。而相反,有些人就会往往因为别人做了对不起自己的事,或者得罪了自己就对其狠之入骨,想尽一切办法至其于死地,把自己的愉快建立在别人的痛苦之上。这样的人心胸狭窄,用心狠毒,怎么能算得上是一个善良的人呢?如果世界上的人全部都是心胸狭窄,十恶不赦之徒,那么整个世界将会变得乌烟瘴气,到那时,就会天下大乱了。 人性中有善也有恶。恶的那一部分,往往被压在我们自己也都无法察觉到的地方,并且以我们同样无法察觉的方式来影响着我们的心情和行为。善良的人往往会因为结交了坏朋友或者是出现一些错误的举动而掉进了万丈深渊,自己的本性也会随之而改变。 善良不是一种愿望,而是一种能力。一种洞察人性中的恶的能力,一种把他人的痛苦完整地理解为痛苦的能力,一种有着宽大胸襟和关爱的意识。而做一个人最重要的,也许就是学习善良,学习这种能力和意识。善良是一种纯朴的人生观,也是一种深沉的智慧。善良的人总是懂得去欣赏别人。假若善良与善良相遇,往往一个会心的微笑,就能律动彼此的心跳。 人的本性本来就是善良的,而善良产生善行,同善良的人接触,往往会使智慧得到开启,情操变得高尚,灵魂变得纯洁,胸怀也变得开阔。眼睛是灵魂的窗口,面孔是心灵的图画,一颗善良的心,比得过任何服饰、金银珠宝、妆扮,它所带来的美丽,不仅是发自内心,更溢于言表,并且持久高贵。俗话说:“人善被人欺,马善被人骑。”但是不管怎么说,善良不是一件坏事。有时候你可以否定一个人善良的举动,但你却无法否定一个人善良的天性。 但是,并不是对待每个人都要善良,如果有恶人要加害于善良的人,善良的人不必对这样的人客气,要与恶人力拼到底,对待恶人要以暴制暴,绝对不能手软。善良的人也需要有正义的心,不能冤枉了一个好人,也绝不放过一个坏人。 播种善良,才能收获希望。一个人可以没有让旁人惊羡的姿态,也可以忍受“缺金少银”的日子,但离开了善良,却足以让人生变得搁浅和褪色——因为善良是生命的黄金。多一些善良,多一些谦让,多一份宽容,多一份理解,让人们在生活中感受到美好和幸福,让善良的鲜花开满天下。 善良为话题的议论文3:善良与生命同在 谁不希望破晓时绽放绚烂一季的辉光?谁不梦寐蒹葭的双生双息羡煞湖光的潋滟?然而,请相信:善良与生命同在…… ——题记 席慕容说:“人生就像一条奔流不息的河,我们都是那个过河的人。”而我却说,人生也许就是必须面对的一场灾难,我们都是那个路过的人。所以,当面对一个生命的不幸时,无论结果如何,我们都要伸出手去帮助同一个征程上的其他人,因为,善良总会与生命同在….. 不要因为路人的质问而退缩,不要因为善意的提醒而茫然,不要因为众说纷纭而停下善良的脚步,这些看似浮华的东西,不过是用来装点生命的一种冲动罢了,其中的意义,需要我们用心去体味,都是匆匆行者,我们何尝不用微不足道的善意去搀扶需要搀扶的人呢? 高中作文 没错,世界永远都是现在进行时。 也许,付出与得到的天平上会发生不尽如人意的失误。 也许,现实与想象的结果也会拥有不可思议的距离。 也许,善良与丑陋只是一种肆无忌惮的想法。 即便如此,我们也要用善良去点缀生命,说不定呢,善良面前,生命也会发生奇迹,善意也总会得到回报的。 看似善意的诱惑无时无刻不充斥着我们的世界;如果张仁杰因为路人的善意质问而退缩,如果马鹏飞因为众人的眼光而放弃行善,如果国旗老阿妈因为善意的提醒而动摇热爱祖国的信念,那还会有美丽的感恩中国吗?还会写下花季的感动吗?还会有高高飘扬的爱国激情吗? 无法阻挡住众人的眼光,也无法预料结果的残酷与否,但只要用心底最纯真的想法去完成生命交给我们的使命,相信等不到年华消逝,你就会听到花开的声音! 善良的结局,就像一阵风,风来便起浪,风去浪无痕。不去在乎结果如何,只要付出过,不去计较回报怎样,只要努力过。 我不知道将来的路还有多曲折,我只需闭目,记忆携来阳光的温柔,睁眼,端详时光飞逝的离愁…… 当蜘蛛网无情地查封了我的炉台, 当眼前铺满了叹息着贫穷的悲哀, 我依然会抚平灰烬,然后用美丽的雪花写下: ——请相信:善良与生命同在! 共2页: 上一页 1 2 下一页
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本文中,我整理了作文素材关于善良的议论文素材,赶快来看看吧,希望对你有用!
1、当善良成为生活里的一种习惯的时候,快乐就如涓涓细流,时时在眼眸里流溢,愉悦自己,也快乐别人,感染社会。
2、古人说“人之初,性本善”,就是对人的感悟和研究的结晶,必有其可取之处。善良的本能赋予更多人精神财富的同时,也时刻在提醒人们万事善为先。善良的本质,就是要让我们更多的享受到善良带给每个人的快乐,体验生命的美丽。
3、假如有一天善良和空气流水一般、自然,根本无须用血和剑去维护,也不需要到法庭和讲坛上去辩护,我想那便是善良的最高水准。
4、美国作家马克·吐温称善良为一种世界通用的语言,它可以使盲人“看到”、聋子“听到”。心存善良之人,他们的心滚烫,情火热,可以驱赶寒冷,横扫阴霾。善意产生善行,同善良的人接触,往往智慧得到开启,情操变得高尚,灵魂变得纯洁,胸怀更加宽阔。多于他(她)们相处,你不需要有所顾忌,有所防备,而会感到很舒服。
5、善良,不仅仅是一个人的个性,不仅仅是一个人的素养,更应该是一个人延续生命的力量。他会让我们的心情更轻松,让我们的身边更加和谐,让我们时刻享受到做人的乐趣。
6、善良,一个很普遍的词,经常被人称道,因为我们面对善良可以不设防,袒露胸襟即使鲁莽,也能得到理解,直率无忌即使过头,也能得到原谅。与善良对话不需要拐弯抹角闪烁其辞,与善良共事不需要多个心眼反留一手。
7、善良不会低头,凛凛然地挺拔傲立。善良的眼泪就是流出来,也是独自长歌当哭,绝不是向不公平发泄和乞求什么。善良浩然坦荡荡。善良的力量在于它的柔,在于它的韧,更在与它的勃发,和无私便也无谓之豪迈。善良精神的光大是世界之大幸,我们每个有良知的人,理应脱帽抚着心向善良之神致敬,并像耕牛一样弯下腰尽心去做每一件善事,像骆驼一样不止步地开拓善良的更新境界。
8、善良的传递,是有选择的。善良会摒蔽痛苦,摒除私欲。自己的疼痛自己受,而不传达给别人;自己的苦恼自己解决,而不污染他人,让别人跟着苦恼。
9、善良能使人美丽,美好的品行能帮你塑造美好的形象。你做过的事,说过的话,动人之处都会存在心里,点点滴滴积累起来,慢慢地令你周身透出可亲,动人和美丽的光芒,充满迷人的魅力。
10、善良是一种传递。用言行把善传递给别人,让人感受并且放大,是最大的善。像在父母的言传身教下,身上保有父母的心性特点,使我有怜悯之心,有关爱之情,有体谅情怀,有奉献精神,有不计较个人得失的风范等等。这种善的本性,不仅让自己在物欲纷繁里不沉沦,也常让自己在生活里得到奉献与助人的乐趣。
我知道有毛主席。对吗?
孙宸:父母捐献亡女器官“看着女儿的器官给别人带去生的希望,就像她还活着一样。”浙江省绍兴县鲁迅中学学生孙宸的父亲孙国祥哽咽道。16岁的孙宸生前乖巧孝顺,成绩优异。11月24日她突然昏迷入院治疗。鲁迅中学的教职员工和学生家长慷慨相助。孙国祥所在企业想方设法联系医学专家。一周后,医院宣布孙宸脑死亡。面对噩耗,孙宸父母主动向医院提出捐献女儿器官。孙宸的两个眼角膜、一个肝脏和两个肾脏分别移植给饱受疾病煎熬的5名患者。孙宸走了,但生命的分量并未因此减轻,她的父母用特殊方式让世人记住了这位美丽的女孩。弗莱彻:“多毛”女蓄须筹善款“这不是作秀,而是要提高男性防癌意识,同时帮助自信心不足者认识到他们所谓的问题‘没什么大不了’。”36岁的英国女性史旺·弗莱彻在ITV电视台《今晨》节目中说。弗莱彻17岁起就需两天刮除一次多余的面部毛发。此种多毛症状由多囊卵巢综合症引起。她常被误认成男性并遭奚落。缺乏自信的她深受抑郁症困扰,曾宅在家中5年之久。近日,她受到朋友启发,决定任由“胡子”生长,参加旨在为前列腺癌慈善基金筹款的“髭须十一月”活动,迄今已筹到约700英镑。她还将应邀与自尊心受到伤害的青少年见面,鼓励他们重新振作。助人为乐也助自己敞开心扉,可谓锦上添花。刘春:寒门学子拾金不昧“我只将钱还给真正的失主。”重庆工业职业技术学院大二女生刘春“淡定”地说。不久前,她去银行取钱时发现原本只有800多元的账户突然多出40万元。“一想到这笔钱,我晚上睡觉都不踏实。”她顾不上吃饭,和老师商量后到派出所报案。最终在银行出具证明和警方核实后确认了失主身份,将钱物归原主。刘春是班上家境最贫困的学生之一,妈妈常年患病,弟弟正读初中,全靠爸爸打零工养家。她的生活费每月仅有400元。寒门子弟拾金不昧令人敬佩。德普里莫:警察为流浪汉买鞋“我时刻谨记要与人为善,因为世界上有许多人过得并不好。”美国纽约警察局长岛分局警官劳伦斯·德普里莫说。据报道,德普里莫在时报广场执勤时看到一名流浪汉赤脚坐靠在玻璃门外。“我当时穿着两双袜子都觉得很冷,而他衣着单薄,光着双脚,所以我决定给他买一双鞋。”当他亲手把鞋送给流浪汉时,游客珍妮弗·福斯特拍下了这一瞬间。传到网上的照片令成千上万人备受鼓舞。福斯特称此情此景让她想起服役32年的警察父亲也曾“这样蹲着”把食物递给无家可归者。这个爱心故事把彼此本不相识的善良人串联在一起。买七份报纸的善良姑娘蔡特金是德国工人运动和国际工人运动杰出的女活动家,德国共产党的创建人之一。她为国际妇女运动做出了卓越的贡献。她还是三八国际劳动妇女节的创始人。很小的时候,蔡特金就表现出了她对弱者的同情心和爱心。有一次,小蔡特金和父亲一块儿逛街,见到了一个小报童,这位小报童穿得又脏又烂,十分可怜。这个时候,小蔡特金顿时产生了同情之心,便把平时积攒下来和零花钱拿了出来,一下子向小报童买了七份报纸。蔡特金的父亲十分好奇,不知道自己的女儿为什么要买这么多的报纸,于是就问:“你为什么要买这么多的报纸?一份不就够了吗?”小蔡特金以为爸爸批评她乱花钱,难过得低下了头。爸爸看出了女儿的心思,便对女儿说:“孩子,别误会,我当然知道你为什么买这样多,但是你给他七份的钱,拿一份不就可以了吗?其他的可以让他去卖嘛!”小蔡特金顿时恍然大悟,连忙取出了一份报纸,把剩下的都还给了报童。朋友,只想陪你坐一坐1962年,作家刘白羽由北京到上海治病。当时他的长子滨滨正患风湿性心脏病,他放心不下,便让滨滨也到上海看病。遗憾的是,由于治疗效果不佳,滨滨的病情不见好转,他本人也要返回北京。万般无奈的刘白羽只得让妻子汪琦送病危的儿子回家。母子俩回北京的当天下午,刘白羽心神不定,烦躁不安。这时,巴金、萧珊夫妇来到了刘白羽的病房。两人进门后,谁都没有说一句话,默默地坐在沙发上。其实他们非常了解滨滨的病情,都在为他担忧,生怕路上发生意外。病房里静悄悄的,巴金伸手握住了刘白羽微微发颤而又汗津津的手,轻轻地抚摸。萧珊则一边留意刘白羽的神情,一边望着桌子上的电话。突然,电话铃响了,萧珊忙抢在刘白羽之前拿起话筒。当电话中传来汪琦母子已平安抵达北京的消息后,三个人长长地舒了口气,脸上都露出了笑容。原来,巴金估计那天北京会来电话,怕有噩耗传来,刘白羽承受不了,于是携夫人萧珊专门前来陪伴他。当两人起身告辞时,刘白羽执意要送到医院门口,他紧紧地握着巴金的手,一再表示感谢。巴金却摆了摆手,淡淡地说,没什么,正好有空,只想陪你坐一坐。恰到好处的掌声拯救了一位音乐天才1991年,一位来自辽宁沈阳的父亲带着9岁的儿子,来到北京寻找他们的音乐梦。可是,父子俩一无关系、二无背景,仅凭着对音乐的执着与热爱,根本不足以引起音乐界的重视。为了能够待在京城,父亲费尽周折,勉强将儿子送进了一家小学。儿子的特长是弹钢琴,父亲花高价联系了一位有名的钢琴师上辅导课。第一天,钢琴师只教了儿了一段简单乐谱,就摇起了脑袋:“这孩子,脑子比一般人笨,反应也慢,肯定上不了中央音乐学院的,趁早改行吧!”结果,性格倔强的儿子当场就和老师吵了起来,父亲怎么也劝不住,师生俩闹得不欢而散。看着不争气的儿子,父亲心里一阵难过:“这些年,爸爸辞职、卖房子,背井离乡,到处求人,不都是为了你能学好钢琴,将来上中央音乐学院吗?你现在却成了这个样子!”儿子的倔劲又上来了:“爸,我再也不学琴了,我想回沈阳!”经过又一场争执之后,父亲由失望变成绝望,决定带儿子离开北京了。在他们动身的当天,接到了一个意外的通知:儿子所在的小学办晚会,老师们指定要儿子弹奏一曲钢琴。儿子显然还在气头上:“不弹了,不弹了,连钢琴老师都说我笨,反应慢,我再也不摸琴了!”几位老师都很奇怪:“弹得好好的,怎么说不弹就不弹了?”“不摸琴?你父亲送你来北京,不就是为了学琴的吗?”然而,无论老师们怎么做工作,儿子就是不肯再摸琴了。他们的争执引来了一群好奇的观众,那就是儿子班上的同学。接下来,令儿子感动的一幕出现了,小朋友们你一言我一语地帮着劝开了:“弹吧,我们都喜欢听你弹琴!”“在我们心中,你的钢琴是弹得最棒的!”……那天晚上,儿子流着泪,以从未有过的激情,弹奏了几支中外名曲。台下的听众们如痴如醉,掌声四起,久久没有停下。儿子站起身来,一遍又一遍向着鼓励他的人们鞠躬,在那些连绵不绝的掌声中,儿子做出了一个改变一生的决定:“我要学钢琴!我一定要学好!”凭着过人的自信加努力,两年后,儿子以第一名的成绩考入中央音乐学院附小;10年之后,他成了中央音乐学院最年轻的客座教授,并且凭着一系列成功的演出技惊中外。他,就是被誉为“百年不遇的钢琴天才”郎朗。成名之后,很多人问起郎朗成功的秘诀,郎朗无一例外都会提及小学时那场特殊的晚会,提及激励自己上路的掌声。后来,一位记者在专访中动情地写道:“这些掌声,是对草根艺术的肯定。尽管它们不是出自名人大腕,但却在关键时刻,以恰到好处的声音,拯救了一位音乐天才。”
1、孙宸:父母捐献亡女器官
“看着女儿的器官给别人带去生的希望,就像她还活着一样。”浙江省绍兴县鲁迅中学学生孙宸的父亲孙国祥哽咽道。16岁的孙宸生前乖巧孝顺,成绩优异。11月24日她突然昏迷入院治疗。鲁迅中学的教职员工和学生家长慷慨相助。
孙国祥所在企业想方设法联系医学专家。一周后,医院宣布孙宸脑死亡。面对噩耗,孙宸父母主动向医院提出捐献女儿器官。孙宸的两个眼角膜、一个肝脏和两个肾脏分别移植给饱受疾病煎熬的5名患者。孙宸走了,但生命的分量并未因此减轻,她的父母用特殊方式让世人记住了这位美丽的女孩。
2、弗莱彻:“多毛”女蓄须筹善款
“这不是作秀,而是要提高男性防癌意识,同时帮助自信心不足者认识到他们所谓的问题‘没什么大不了’。”
36岁的英国女性史旺·弗莱彻在ITV电视台《今晨》节目中说。弗莱彻17岁起就需两天刮除一次多余的面部毛发。此种多毛症状由多囊卵巢综合症引起。她常被误认成男性并遭奚落。缺乏自信的她深受抑郁症困扰,曾宅在家中5年之久。
近日,她受到朋友启发,决定任由“胡子”生长,参加旨在为前列腺癌慈善基金筹款的“髭须十一月”活动,迄今已筹到约700英镑。她还将应邀与自尊心受到伤害的青少年见面,鼓励他们重新振作。助人为乐也助自己敞开心扉,可谓锦上添花。
3、刘春:寒门学子拾金不昧
“我只将钱还给真正的失主。”重庆工业职业技术学院大二女生刘春“淡定”地说。不久前,她去银行取钱时发现原本只有800多元的账户突然多出40万元。“一想到这笔钱,我晚上睡觉都不踏实。”她顾不上吃饭,和老师商量后到派出所报案。
最终在银行出具证明和警方核实后确认了失主身份,将钱物归原主。刘春是班上家境最贫困的学生之一,妈妈常年患病,弟弟正读初中,全靠爸爸打零工养家。她的生活费每月仅有400元。寒门子弟拾金不昧令人敬佩。
感动中国人物
1、张定宇:宇定光自发
人物事迹:湖北省武汉市金银潭医院是最早接诊新冠患者的定点医院,收治病人全部为重症和危重症患者。院长张定宇隐瞒自己患渐冻症的病情,顾不上已感染新冠肺炎的妻子,一直坚守在抗疫一线。他说:“虽然有愧疚,但当时不需要做取舍,能帮助到别人,觉得很幸福!”
颁奖词:步履蹒跚与时间赛跑,只想为患者多赢一秒;身患绝症与新冠周旋,顾不上亲人已经沦陷。这一战,你矗立在死神和患者之间;那一晚,歌声飘荡在城市上空,我们用血肉筑成新的长城。
2、陈陆:男儿付死生
人物事迹:2020年夏天,安徽庐江县遭受百年一遇洪灾。7月22日,庐江县石大圩漫堤决口,约6500人被洪水围困,情况危急。当天,安徽省庐江县消防救援大队政治教导员陈陆带领大队辗转5个乡镇,连续奋战,成功转移群众2665人。在营救过程中,决口突然扩大,救援队员所乘橡皮艇被卷入激流漩涡侧翻,年仅36岁的陈陆英勇牺牲。“放心,我会守好庐江”,是陈陆对父亲的承诺,也是他用生命兑现的对国家和人民的承诺。
颁奖词:最先出发,最快抵达,为危难的乡亲奉上最好的年华。欠身体一台手术,欠妻子一个告别,欠父母一次团圆。洪水汹涌,你是浪尖上的逆行者,大雨过后,你是天空中灿烂的霞。
名人素材:
1、在丘吉尔掉入粪池的时候,有一个农夫闻声赶来,奋不顾身跳入粪池,将他救起。这个农夫就是弗莱明的父亲。丘吉尔的父亲当时是英国上议院的议员,为了报答农夫的救子之恩,他把弗莱明带去上学,一直读到圣玛利亚学院毕业。弗莱明后来成为了英国细菌学家。
2、1991年,一位来自辽宁沈阳的父亲带着9岁的儿子,来到北京寻找他们的音乐梦。为了能够待在京城,父亲费尽周折,勉强将儿子送进了一家小学。儿子所在的小学办晚会,老师们指定要儿子弹奏一曲钢琴。
儿子不肯再摸琴了,他们的争执引来了儿子班上的同学。小朋友们你一言我一语地帮着劝开了:“弹吧,我们都喜欢听你弹琴!”。那天晚上,台下的听众们如痴如醉,掌声四起。在那些连绵不绝的掌声中,儿子做出了一个改变一生的决定:“我要学钢琴!我一定要学好!”
凭着过人的自信加努力,10年之后,他成了中央音乐学院最年轻的客座教授,并且凭着一系列成功的演出技惊中外。他,就是被誉为“百年不遇的钢琴天才”郎朗。
3、16岁的孙宸生前乖巧孝顺,成绩优异。11月24日她突然昏迷入院治疗。鲁迅中学的教职员工和学生家长慷慨相助。孙国祥所在企业想方设法联系医学专家。一周后,医院宣布孙宸脑死亡。面对噩耗,孙宸父母主动向医院提出捐献女儿器官。
孙宸的两个眼角膜、一个肝脏和两个肾脏分别移植给饱受疾病煎熬的5名患者。孙宸走了,但生命的分量并未因此减轻,她的父母用特殊方式让世人记住了这位美丽的女孩。
4、广西何玥即将小学毕业之时,被查出患有高度恶性小脑胶质瘤。9月初,她的病情突然复发,肿瘤扩散至脑部组织。在听说生命只剩3个月时,何玥做出了父母亲人都难以理解的决定捐赠遗体。
11月17日凌晨0时10分,小何玥在医院里走完了短短12年的人生路。凌晨4时,她的两个肾被送到解放军第181医院捐给了两名患者,她的肝也救助了需要的病患。
5、高淑珍,河北滦南县司各庄镇洼里村普通农村妇女。她的儿子王利国残疾,到上学年龄不能上学。高淑珍心疼儿子,想在家办个小课堂。由于附近村庄也有些因肢残不能上学的孩子。
1998年4月她的“炕头课堂”开讲,“炕头课堂”一开就是14年。14年间,她接收了近百名残疾孩子,却从未收过一分钱。