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中美教子的不同之处: 横向激励与纵向发展 中国的儿童教育,表扬与批评为惯用的教育手段,教师喜欢采用横向比较法,如利用小红笔、小红旗、排名次表等方式鼓励孩子,看谁表现好。当纠正孩子不良行为时常常采取表扬其他孩子,以其他孩子做榜样的方式。美国教师则不同,一般对孩子不表扬也不批评,理由是:批评了你的孩子会刺激你的孩子,表扬了你的孩子会刺激其他的孩子,他们注重儿童自身的纵向发展而避免对儿童进行相互比较。 集体精神与发展个体 中国人强调个人服从集体,个体要与集体保持一致,如果出现不一致则需要调整自己的行为。美国人强调个性差异,教师总是根据孩子不同的个性与能力安排活动。目的是为了使每个孩子都能成为有别于他人的独特个体。 稳重听话与活泼好动 中国人在评价孩子的性情时,“稳重听话”是一大优点,“听话的孩子是好孩子”已在国人中形成共识。学校教育强调秩序井然,用各种规章来约束孩子的行为。美国人喜欢孩子富有孩子气,小学和幼儿园的课堂上允许孩子随便说话,甚至相互打闹,美国人总觉得中国孩子在课堂上太死板,没有生气。 强调自制与突出自主 中国教师总是鼓励孩子在尽可能长的时间内专门做好某一件事,以期培养儿童的恒心、耐心,他们多强调儿童自我意识的社会性发展,多引导儿童逐步学会适应和控制自己的情感,而美国教师常常鼓励孩子在一段不长的时间内从事多项活动,以期培养孩子的灵活性、创造性,多注重儿童自我意识自然发展,多鼓励儿童自由且自然地表达自己的思想与情感。 肯定结果与重视过程 中国人重结果与技能的掌握;无论学习什么,为求学深学透,无论干什么,力求完美无缺。美国人重过程与能力的增减,他们注重孩子的参与意识,孩子们自由选择的机会多,教师还极力鼓励孩子自由发挥、自由创造,以培养孩子的想像力和创造力。 概括地说,中国人力图使儿童发现社会存在,创造环境使儿童学会怎样长大成人,儿童是被动的,富有可塑性的,重在成人的帮助指导下成长。美国人力图使儿童能真正作为孩子,儿童是主动的,富有创造的,自我实现是儿童自身的自然与发展,成人只需提供有利的条件即可。 中美家庭教育的跨文化比较: 今天,国际竞争日益激烈,而这种竞争归根到底是人的素质的竞争,是人才培养的竞争。我们知道,人才培养的首要阵地是家庭,因此,从某种意义上说,人才的竞争是父母育儿能力的竞争。所以,世界各国在培养新世纪人才的教育工程中,都很重视家庭教育这一环节。虽然家庭教育在我国已经引起了社会各界,特别是教育界的极大关注,但是时至今日,我国不少家庭的教育仍存在着误区,它甚至成为一种顽疾,严重地影响着青少年一代良好素质的形成。因此,借鉴其他国家在家庭教育中有价值的实践,对走出我国家庭教育的误区将有很好的启发和警醒作用。本文试图通过对中美两国家庭教育相关方面的比较,分析形成两国家庭教育差异的原因,进而提出对我国家庭教育改革的启示。我们不能断言美国家庭培养的人就是理想中的现代人,但他们国家家庭教育中的合理成分;恰恰是我国家庭教育所缺乏的。因此,美国家庭教育的一些实践,能为我国家庭教育的改革提供借鉴。 一、中美家庭教育的结果比较 不同的教育目的、内容和方式,会产生不同的教育结果。我们可从中美两国家庭教育结果的比较中略见一斑: 一般而言,美国的儿童、少年从小就表现出以下特点:性格倾向积极,遇事镇定沉着,能与人和谐相处,开朗、胆大,有克服困难的毅力,敢想、敢做,具有创新精神;自立能力强,社会活动能力强,有作为社会成员独立存在的信心和勇气,他们18岁开始不依靠家庭,多数打工补贴自身的消费需用;具有适应市场经济的头脑,他们从小就参与“当家理财”,学会一些推销、与顾客沟通的能力等“经营之道”,实践使他们深知钱来之不易,从而养成了精打细算、勤俭度日的习惯。一句话,美国孩子的特点就是非智因素成熟,能力强,能较为顺利地适应社会。 而中国的儿童、少年,乃至大学生,虽然学习成绩不亚于美国孩子,但是往往在性格上表现出消极倾向:做事被动、胆怯,依赖性强,人际交往能力差,缺乏自立意识,不太会“当家理财”,独立生活能力差。一句话,缺乏适应社会的能力。中国孩子的这些个性和特点,恐怕是与我国倾向于“学历教育”有很大关联,父母希望孩子躲在学校这座象牙塔里寒窗苦读,不让孩子在风云变幻的社会里摸爬滚打。 现代社会更能接纳哪一种教育结果呢?社会发展的动因是人的能动性、创造性,要求人性的充分解放。伴随人类文明的进步,人类将越来越关怀人性的发展,人的各方面能力的发展,所以现代社会需要的是有活力的、全面的人。显然,美国家庭教育更能培养个性张扬、有创造力、生存力的“人”,而中国家庭教育培养的是“守规矩”、“会读书”的所谓的“才”。这是中国家庭与学校“合作”进行“应试教育”的结果,这种教育的结果将严重影响我国青少年的身心素质。因此,中国家庭教育改革刻不容缓。 二、中美家庭教育的过程比较 从家庭教育的结果反观家庭教育的过程,我们可以看到,家庭教育虽然是非制度化的教育,父母的素质也参差不齐,但是作为教育系统的一个重要方面,它同学校教育一样,也有一定的教育目的、教育内容和教育方式。其中家庭教育的目的是家庭教育活动的出发点、归宿点,家庭教育的内容、方式都是依据目的确定的。 1、教育目的的比较 家庭教育目的制约了家庭教育的方向,决定其总体效果,所以家庭教育目的是家庭教育的核心,是决定中美两国家庭教育差异的根本原因。家庭教育的目的就是通过家庭教育要把受教育者培养成什么样的人。一旦目的确定,教育内容、方式都据之选择。那么,美国和中国家庭教育的目的,或者两国父母对子女的期望有什么差异呢? 美国家庭教育的目的,是要把孩子培养成具有适应各种环境和独立生存能力的“社会人”,这个目的的期望值不高。“社会人”不是一种飘渺的理想,而是一个平实、易操作而又宽泛的要求。所以美国父母能较为轻松地对待子女的教育,把子女个性中积极的成分最大限度地挖掘出来,让子女实现自我价值,就算达到目的,也并不追求一些功利性的目标如高学历、好职业,但事实上,这样的教育却产生许多“无心插柳柳成荫”的效应,天才产生在不经意中。另外,在这个目的的指引下,确实能培养子女的自主意识和独立生存的能力。看看各个阶段的美国孩子:他们从小就独立睡;当会行走时,就自己玩耍,很少父母抱着玩;再大些时,就有自己的空间,房间内的摆设、布置和清理全由小孩负责;他们从小就做些力所能及的有偿服务,如做清洁、帮人看小孩、送报纸等,到了高中或大学后就勒工俭学,换取生活费。 相比之下,我国的家庭教育目的是把孩子培养成“才”,将来有出息,有个好职业,一生能在顺境中度过。首先,这个目的的期望值高,而且功利性强,因为“有出息”、“好职业”、“顺境”不是一个一般的目的,较难实现。出于这个目的,中国父母特别关心孩子的学业成绩,对孩子的唯一要求就是专心、安静地坐下来读书、学艺,却忽视孩子的天分,限制他们的创造力,结果为了培养所谓的“人才”反而扼杀了天才,产生许多“有心栽花花不发”的效应。而且由于很少考虑孩子的性格、社会适应能力、公民意识等问题,即使学业成绩好,将来也未必能顺利地立足社会,有时候,还会使父母的期望完全落空。 2、教育内容的比较 有什么样的教育目标,就会有什么样的教育内容。美国家庭教育内容丰富,注意让孩子在体力、认知、语言、社会性、情感上获得和谐发展,可称之为“素质教育”。在促进体力的增强上,重视开展幼儿户外活动、体育锻炼,如在庭院里荡秋千,野外远足等;在认知的发展上,重视训练孩子的各种感官,注意开拓孩子的文化、审美视野,孩子的学习兴趣,如父母到图书馆借阅图书或学习时,喜欢带上孩子,让其受周围环境的熏陶,萌发学习的愿望;在社会性的培养上,教育孩子自我服务,自己的事情自己做,并要求孩子学会具有与同伴合作、分享、互助的行为;在情感的陶冶上,指导孩子欣赏音乐、美术、舞蹈、文学艺术作品的美,如带孩子到美术馆、博物馆观看各种展品,鼓励孩子参加艺术创作活动,让孩子亲身接触、体验大自然的奥秘,如带孩子到森林公园旅游,海浪中游泳、攀登岩壁等。 中国的家庭教育内容虽然也可以分为德、智、体、美几方面,但往往是当孩子进入了学龄期(有的甚至在学龄前期)就开始将智育放在压倒一切的地位,使得教育内容出现不平衡的倾向。在体育上,中国的家庭保证孩子生长发育所需营养,保护孩子的安全,注意疾病的预防与治疗,与美国对比起来,这种教育是一种防御性的、静态的、消极的保护,温室培育起不到强身健体的作用;在智育上,向孩子传授知识、技能,如为孩子购置各种知识性、趣味性的读物,训练孩子朗读、书写、计算等技能,当孩子开始接受学校教育后,家庭教育出现学校化倾向,父母监督学习、检查作业、购买习题集、实行题海战,应付永无休止的考试;在美育上,越来越多的父母,认识到“一技之长”的重要性,因而盲目培养孩子特殊艺术才能,如把孩子送入绘画班、歌舞班学习,聘请家庭教师教孩子学拉小提琴、学弹电子琴等,这种急功近利的做法一方面无视孩子的兴趣,另一方面由于耗费大量的时间和费用,往往对孩子的要求过高而增加了他们的负担。 相比之下,美国的家庭教育内容相对丰富和科学,而我国家庭教育的内容狭窄,不够科学。比如家庭教育中的体育,中国的父母往往比较在意孩子的体形、体态这些体育中低层次的内容,重视保证孩子的营养、注意疾病预防,却容易忽略体能锻炼,孩子的户外运动少,多呆在家里看电视,肥胖症增多。智能可以分为实能和潜能,实能即实际能力,即你知道什么,掌握什么知识和技能。我国家庭教育忽略的是技能,如动手能力、协调能力、生活技能、劳动技能、工作技能等等,而美国在社会性的培养上特别重视这些技能,在他们看来,这些技能是一个人立足社会的基本。我国的家庭教育在智育上忽略了一部分实能的同时,更加忽略的是潜能,潜能分为学习能力和创造能力,表面上我国父母很重视知识的学习,空际上只注重认知能力中的低层次部分,这部分可以应付考试,但始终不能构成未来社会的创造力量。《全国青少年创造培养系列社会调查》中问,如果发现孩子在拆装闹钟,家长会有什么反应。40%的家长对孩子“训斥”、“警告”,48%的家长以“不耐烦”、“不屑于”或“敷衍”的方式对待,可见我国父母对创造力培养的认识还需要提高。相比之下,美国家长在认知发展上就注意培养孩子的多方面兴趣爱好,重视对创新精神的培养,美国许多专家不主张过早地让孩子死记硬背一些他们并不理解的知识。孩子放学回家后,中国父母问孩子的第一句话多是:“老师教你的知识记住了吗?”,“今天得了多少分?”,而美国父母第一句则问:“今天你向老师提了什么问题?”,“今天的课有意思吗?”。这就反映了中美父母对智能的不同理解。 3、教育方式的比较 家庭教育方式是父母完成教育内容的具体措施和手段,选择什么样的教育方式和一个国家的文化传统、风格习惯、历史背景紧密联系,而且受教育目的制约。反过来,能不能恰当地选择并创造性地运用科学的教育方式,关系到家庭教育目的的实现和内容的完成。 一般而言,美国家庭以民主平等的教育方式为主,父母尊重孩子的人格和人权,把孩子当作是一个独立的和平等的家庭成员相待,与孩子建立民主平等的关系;而中国家庭民主平等的教育方式相对欠缺,没有把孩子当作一个与父母平等的人来尊重。 美国家庭民主的教育方式表现在:(1)孩子在家里有发言权、参与权,美国父母鼓励孩子“保留意见”、“固执”、“不听话”,允许孩子“不听话”主要是指思维上的“不听话”,据美国心理学家托伦斯研究发现,创造力高的孩子特点之一就是淘气、处世固执。(2)美国孩子有选择权,美国父母在孩子的认知能力有了初步发展时,就很重视让孩子自己去进行选择,作出决定,他们可以选择游戏、图书,长大了自己选择朋友,自己选择职业、自己选择婚姻对象、结婚时间。美国父母不会代替孩子选择,他们主要是引导孩子怎样进行选择,或者站在孩子的身后,给孩子信心,鼓励孩子“用你的眼睛去观察”。(3)美国父母如朋友,他们可以平等的交流,关系比较密切。(4)美国父母尊重孩子的隐私。 中国家庭的教育方式表现在:(1)孩子在家庭生活中较少有发言权、参与权、中国父母对孩子的要求就是守规矩、服劝导、不要有异见。正如美国前总统尼克松说:“中国的教育制度从小把他们训练得十分驯服,从小灌输要听大人的话的思想,不允许有独立见解,更不允许像爱因斯坦自称的‘离经叛道’,这种教育方式只能培养出守业型人才”,“但却失去了中国的达尔文和爱因斯坦”。(2)中国孩子的选择权、自主权较小,许多事情都按父母的意愿去办或由父母包办代替。(3)中国父母在家庭里往往以权威出现,因此与孩子的距离较远。(4)中国孩子的隐私常常受到侵害,书包被搜查,日记被偷看,行动被跟踪。 美国父母主张开放式教育:(1)重视实际锻炼,强调在实践中培养孩子,而不是说教。美国人认为,凡是孩子的事情都让孩子自己去完成,在完成任务过程中提高认识、积累经验、掌握技术、增强能力、培养兴趣特长,增强自信心和责任心。可以说,美国父母“给孩子开门的钥匙”而不是“替孩子开门”。(2)看重玩耍游戏,美国人认为玩才是孩子这个年龄段最重要的事。在美国,孩子进行各项兴趣活动、体育活动的时间都比较充裕,活动场所到处都有。父母经常利用节假日、周末带领孩子外出游玩,在玩的过程中开发智能如感知、想象、判断、推理和人的交际和情绪的调节等。 中国父母多是封闭式教育:(1)以说教为主,轻视实践活动的重要作用。父母对孩子的要求就是读书,连力所能及的自理活动都由父母包办,导致许多中国孩子学了许多知识都没用,走上社会后就什么也不会。(2)户外活动少,因为中国孩子从早到晚有学不完的功课做不完的作业,被功课压得喘不过气来;有时即使想活动一下也很难找到好场地。 民主的教育方式表现为一种宽松教育,优点很多:首先,有利于创新精神的培养。宽松是激发孩子创造力的重要条件,在高压下孩子的创造精神将受到压抑,只有在平和、愉悦的家庭氛围中才能激发孩子对知识的兴趣。而创造宽松的环境,必须与孩子建立民主平等的关系。其次,有利于健康人格的培养。孩子在家有发言权、参与权、选择权以后,主动性强、自主意识强、胆子大、有自信心和责任心。另外,亲情关系和睦使孩子愿意把秘密告诉父母,父母也理解孩子的情感世界,这能使孩子形成良好的性格。而专制的教育方式表现为一种管束教育,压抑创造性,束缚了个性的发展。 三、中美家庭教育差异的原因分析 同是现代社会,同样有重视家庭教育的父母,为什么美国家庭教育和中国家庭教育有以上的差异?综合来看,造成不同教育的原因是: 首先,历史背景的差异。 美国是一个历史比较短的移民国家,旧有的思想文化保留得很少,在多元文化、思想价值观的影响下,能够较快地接受新的思想和文化,发展的约束较少,因此,他们更多的具有冒险和创新精神。而中国历史文化悠久,同时所受旧有的约束也较多,特别是封建小农意识长期的影响太深,文化价值观上多是比较内敛和保守的,缺少冒险精神和创造意识,顺从、听话教育被从小就灌输着,相对而言,在整体上也缺少一种接受新思想的环境。 其次,经济形态的差异。 美国生产力先进,商品经济发达,就业机会多,生存压力小,而且美国是个“能力社会”,用人机制健全,劳动力流通自由,跳槽机会多,所以美国人择业观开放,职业选择面宽。美国父母认为孩子将来只要能在社会上立足生存,职业是不分高低贵贱的(当然要合法)。另外,“商品经济使生产关系总处于躁动不安的变化之中”,职业更换不断,所以父母不企求子女一生顺境。因此,美国父母的教育目的重在育“人”,更为宏观、宽泛,以不变应万变。而中国经济落后,生存压力大,是个“学历社会”,行业流动性差,所以中国人往往把一生的幸福都压在某种职业上,选择面窄。中国父母认为学业成绩好,找到好工作,求得一生安稳,是一个人最好的出路。因此,中国父母的教育目的重在成“才”(“才”就是学业成绩优秀,能考上好学校,能获得高学历)。 再次,社会条件的差异。 美国经济条件好,社会养老保障健全。父母不认为养儿就是为了防老,自己老了可以进养老院,无后顾之忧。因而把孩子培养到18岁,并成为一个独立自主有责任心和同情心的人就算尽到了自己的义务,完成了养育孩子的任务,孩子将来的路如何走,全靠他自己去奋斗,将来能否光宗耀祖升官发财,父母考虑并不多。而中国则由于经济条件比较差,社会养老保障不健全和一些旧有的观念问题,对孩子的教育从个人养老或个人荣誉面子角度考虑得比较多,把孩子当作自己的私有财产来看待,要孩子知恩图报,因而在教养的方式和方法上就充分体现了这一点。不少家长把打骂孩子看作是家庭内部私事,任何人无权干涉,更谈不上法律约束了。 最后,文化传统的差异。 1、价值取向不同 美国人重个性,价值取向是以个人为本的个体主义,注重个人利益,崇尚个人发展,实现自我,这是美国文化核心。美国一个学者一针见血地指出:在民主的社会,每个公民习惯地琢磨一个很小的目标,那就是他自己。在家庭中,个人是本位,个体具有最高价值,不依赖他人存在,独立于家庭关系中。所以在美国家庭中,父母倾向于把自身与孩子看成是两个独立的个体,“自我”包括父母自我和子女自我。首先,子女自我价值的实现显然要尊重子女的意愿、兴趣和爱好,因人而异,美国父母比较重个人生活享受,平时决不会为了孩子而放弃去听音乐会、看电影、跳舞或约会。 中国人讲共性,有整体至上的价值观,强调集体利益高于个人利益。中国人认为人的确立方式是在“二人”对立关系中生成的。从古至今,“自我”这个概念总是与他人相伴而生,个人的价值只有在与他人的关系中才得以体现。在中国家庭中,父母丧失自我,也不尊重子女的自我,我国父母丧失自我的表现就是存在严重的“亲子一体感”,父母把孩子视为自身价值的延续,将孩子作为自己生活的全部和人生的希望,具有和孩子不可分割的一体化感觉。这样父母会以自己的意志替代孩子的兴趣,站在成人的角度设计孩子的未来,所以中国父母的期望相对于孩子的能力是过高的。 美国重个性,中国讲共性的价值取向是有其经济背景的。美国在近代资本主义经济结构中,充满活力的商品经济过早排斥了自然经济,独占鳌头近百年。个人在商品经济的条件下相对独立,个人只有提高自我、扩展自我,才能在商品经济竞争中立足和发展,所以养成了重视自我的传统。而中国自然经济延续数千年,中国人习惯性地束缚在土地上,个人失去了独立发展的条件,几十年的计划经济也未能让中国人摆脱依赖性。个人的发展常需要“走关系”,对个人的评价是通过与他人的比较进行的,所以喜欢融入集体,以免被孤立。 2、思维风格不同 美国人是理性主义,美国的家庭教育推崇以理性的基本原则对待家庭成员和家庭事务。美国父母多是把抚养教育孩子的义务,与对社会应尽的义务一样看待,这是超越个人的立场,而不是完全从家庭本身或父母自身的利益来看待家庭教育。既然他们认为抚育子女是义务,也就不图养儿防老,不图回报,自己老了进养老院是一个人应有的归宿(当然,这些中国人视为不道德的做法源于美国的社会保障机制和文化习惯)。 中国人是情意至上,我国的家庭教育以人伦为基础,以情感情理为法则,来处理家庭人际关系。我国父母把孩子看作是自己的私有财产,从个人养老或个人荣誉面子角度考虑子女教育,在无微不至的父母爱怜中隐含着较为浓厚的“投桃报李”的私情。由此说来,就不难理解为什么中国父母“望子成龙”、“盼女成凤”的心情远胜于美国,往往把家庭教育目的功利化。 四、结语 本文是对中美两国家庭教育作一般性的比较,两国家庭教育中肯定存在着个别的特殊性,而且,事实上与中国比较,美国家庭教育中也存在着明显的不足(比如过于放任造成儿童青少年诸多社会问题;过于理性,使孩子对赡养老人的责任感较为缺乏;过于重视“乐学”,使得儿童青少年学习水平下降等)。显然,本文并不是要全盘肯定美国的家庭教育,也不是要全盘否定中国的家庭教育。笔者试图通过中美家庭教育的比较分析,引发对我国的家庭教育的改革思路: 1、教育目的——变“成才”教育为“成人”教育。通过分析,我们可以看到,从总体而言,美国家庭的教育目的,更能产生创新人才,更能适应现代社会的发展。不可否认,我国的家庭教育在“应试教育”的氛围中出现了误区,教育目的短期化、功利化,扼杀了不少天才。要改变现状,需要家庭内外的努力。宏观上讲随着社会生产力的提高,社会竞争的加强,人们择业观的开放,一个人的综合素质将会越来越受到社会的重视,而这种综合素质事实上就是最基本的“成人”教育。将“成人”作为家庭教育的目的,就会使我国的家庭教育走出误区,使得青少年的成长更切合自身及社会发展的需要。 2、教育内容——变“片面”教育为“全面”教育,目前的家庭教育,由于教育目的是“成才”教育,造成在教育内容方面的误区就是智育压倒一切。这样的教育,会使孩子片面、畸形地发展,成为只会“死读书”人,这样的人将无法适应瞬息万变的社会环境。因此,确立了“成人”教育的目的,在家庭中,父母应当提高孩子的综合素质,要提高综合素质,就必然要变片面的教育为全面的教育,尤其不能忽略潜能、道德、性情的培育。 3、教育方式——变“管束”教育为“宽松”教育,变“封闭”教育为“开放”教育。受中国传统文化的影响,在家庭中,父母对子女往往权威大于民主,这样的教育不利于青少年的健康成长。现代社会应该提倡“宽松”教育、“开放”教育。

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The importance of family education Family education on the issue since ancient times by people's concern, but as a subject to study in China in recent years is also the matter. This is the development of the times, the demand, the National necessary to improve the overall quality of the issues involved. Here with the parents of the importance of family education, the aim is to the family and society, the education sector to shoulder the common task of educating the next generation. The education is a system of education works here include a family education, social education, collective (Tuoyouyuansuo, school) education, the three interrelated and organic combination of mutual influence, interaction and mutual constraints The education project from which one can, but in this project, family education is the foundation of all education. The former Soviet Union educators famous Su Huomu Belinsky transferred to a child than marble, he said, to shape this into a marble statue of need six sculptor: 1 family, 2 schools, 3 children of the collective; 4 child; books; 6 occasional factor. From the order, the family was included in the first place, can see the family in shaping children in the course of a very important role in the hearts of the educators occupy a position. For this reason parents understand the importance of family education is very necessary. First, family education is the starting point for education and basic point Family education generally refers to the family of parents and adult children of minors education process. Their educational objectives should be: the child into the community to accept collective education (kindergarten, school education) prior to guarantee the physical and mental health development of children, to accept the kindergartens, schools of education to lay a solid foundation. The child for admission into the school, with kindergartens, schools to moral, intellectual, physical, the United States, the various aspects of comprehensive development. Education is the focus of moral education mainly among children good moral quality and develop good habits mainly habits include: living habits, labor practices, learning habits, the church children how to learn "life." As a result of family education in the family, and kindergartens, schools of education, social education, compared with the following characteristics of these features so that family education to become the starting point for education and basic point is by no other educational advantages. (A) family of early education The family is the cradle of life of children, who are receiving education after the birth of a venue that is the first class life; parents are children's first teachers, that is, the Enlightenment division. Therefore, parents of children by the application of early education the most. Generally speaking, after the birth of a child after three years of development, access to early childhood, from the 3-year-old…… 6-year-old is preschool, which is said in the early stages of education, this is the physical and mental development of an important period. China's Gu Yan: "Cang, with the Cang, with the yellow, yellow." Childhood is gradually nurture life with the beginning of many basic human capacity is a stage of this age, such as language, and some basic moves Living habits, and so on, the character is gradually taking shape. U.S. psychologists Bloom, a person's intellectual development if his 17-year-old regarded as the level reached 100 percent, then 4 years old when it reached 50 percent. 4-8 years old and a 30% increase ,8-17-year-old also won 20 percent. This shows that children in the 5-year-old former intelligence is the fastest growing period, the early intellectual development is the best, if parents in this period by the implementation of good family education, early child will be the key to intellectual development. Since ancient times, many people with lofty ideals, celebrities in the early years of fruitful period by a good family education is their future become an important cause. For example, the German poet, playwright Goethe's become, effective early education in the family. Goethe 2-3 years old, his father hold on to the outskirts of the field visit to observe nature, culture Goethe's observation capability. 3-4 years old, his father taught him to sing, the songs back, said a fairy tale, and we intend to let him in the face of public lectures, training his speaking ability. These are awareness education so that young Goethe optimistic, progressive, happy to think, be good at learning. Goethe-8-year-old can use, Germany, Britain, Italy, Latin, Greek reading books, 14-year-old wrote the script, the 25-year-old with a month's time wrote a famous poem in Europe, "The Sorrows of Young Werther . " Another example of ancient "and his son calligrapher," Wang Xizhi's known for, Wang Xianzhi, there have been a number of 1350 Edison invented the great inventors, the generation of literary star Guo Moruo, Mao Dun and other celebrities of the growth process that the family education in the early intellectual development is very important . Instead, the period of childhood are not good family education and intellectual impact on the normal development of many of the examples is. Such as India, "Langhai" Ka Mala, who was Diao to the wolf, when 8-year-old was found, but their living habits with the same people, their living habits and almost like a wolf, limbs, crawling, eating raw meat, day V Night, Later, a man-made training, two years before standing, after six years can be like walking Xiangren, four years learned to six words, in his 17-year-old, the intellectual level reached only 3-year-old child's level. According to "China Women" revealed that China's Nanjing City Xingma one of the workers suffering from mental and psychological diseases, Shenpa children persecuted by the people, will own three children from small lock at home, people so that they contacts with the outside world, has a long Up to 10 years, resulting in the children mental retardation, speech delay, compared with their peers, intellectual capacity and very different life, near idiots, so the family can not be neglected the role of early education, (B) family education continuity of family education second characteristic is the continuity. After the birth of a child, from small to large, almost 2 / 3 of time living in the family, Zhaochaomumu, all the parents in the education. Such education is the intentional and unintentional, planned and unplanned, consciously and unconsciously, are carried out, no matter what, in what time education, parents are in their own words and deeds at any time affect their children's education . Such education of children living habits, moral conduct and behaviour and so on in the style of conversation kept to influence and demonstrations, the subtle influence of the considerable role, accompanied by a person's life can be said to live to old to learn the old, some Parent educator again called for life teachers. This life of the education often reflects a family's Family Style, Family Style is good or bad often have to continue for several generations, or even a dozen, dozens generation, and this Family Style often with family members engaged in the employment-related . Such as: Xinglin family "," Pear Orchard House, "" family education ", etc. At the same time Family Style also reflects a family's style of study, study, good or bad is often the continuation of many generations, a dozen people, several dozens of generations . As in modern China, Wuxi people Yan Gong added-not "countries selected in the Museum", statistics from 2003-Shunzhi Branch to Guangxu 30 years Bing Xu Jia Chen Branch, the champion of 114 people, including his son by the first brothers Shuzhileishi Absolutely not, such as Suzhou Miao, Wu and Pan Sanxing, Changshu Weng, both surnamed Jiang, Chen Haining, Zhejiang, check the two surnames. See, family education is often the continuity of personnel groups have an important impact on the rise. This Situation. Ancient and modern times quite prominent in the contemporary with the development of science, and social needs of the unemployed increased, the broad people's careers, a family member can not have all engaged in the same work, but many see this situation That some family members work frequently appears in the results, be commended, but some family members one after another crime. This is a continuous education and family have great relations. (C) family education authority Family Education is the authority of parents in their children on their elders reflected by the power and power. The existence of the family, parents and children identified the blood relationship, upbringing, emotional, moral and ethical children in the living needs of the elderly parents have great dependence, family members and the fundamental interests of consistency, have decided The father of each of their children a greater role in the constraints. Parent education was easier to accept and submit to the children, parents and reasonable use of this feature, the children good moral character and habits formed the usefulness, for child care, in particular, is the case. Child care and other children in playing the game, when disputes arise when parents are often invoked to confirm their own speech act is right, if they like to say: "My father is saying this." Or "My mother is So do. "And so on. Children of parents in the eyes of the authority decided to accept the child how to treat the nursery schools and community education. The relationship between children and parents, the child is the first to face an important social relations. In this relationship, almost embodies the moral social ethics in all aspects, if such a relationship in the formation of cracks and defects, the children then to the community, in a variety of relationships will be reflected. Therefore stressed the importance of parental authority, but also because the children of parents in childhood has always played a dual role: the safety of children is not only the survival of protected persons, but also a life of the Wizard of Enlightenment. The effects of parental education, depends on the extent to establish the authority of parents, foster parents must be authoritative Built on respect for children on the basis of personality, rather than the feudal patriarchal system, parents are wise to understand the importance of establishing authority, but also know how to establish the authority does not rely on repression and force, subjective assumptions, but the method used Gangrouxiangji. Both parents in the education of their children's attitude on the first concerted and coordinate with each other, should be wide, wide, it should be strict martial law, in front of their children establish a kind of dignity and image, so that parents accept their children's education. (D) of the infected family education Parents with children between the blood relationship and kinship between the natural and close, making the parents of the children have strong feelings on the role of infection. Children on the demeanour of the parents can often Xinlingshenkuai to intelligence-intelligence. In dealing with in and around the side of the relationship between matter and the issue of children on the attitude of parents is very easy to resonate. In the happy parents, the children will take part in joy, the parents showed irritability and Menmenbuyue, the child's emotions can easily be affected, even young children as well. If the parents lack of rational and emotional, hot temper, will enable blind children to absorb its weaknesses. Some parents in dealing with unexpected incidents, show panic anxiety, surprise, the impact on children is not good if the frightened parents the same, steady firm and children in distress will also calm the situation calmly, so the quality of child psychology training Play a positive role. (5) timeliness of family education Family education process, parents are parents of children in the family of the individual acts of education than kindergarten, school education should promptly. As the saying goes:知子莫若父, that women Morrow home. Overnight between parents and children, their situation can be said to be well known to the children was slightly changed, even a look, a smile can make parents Xinlingshenhui, so as parents through their children's every move, his every word and deed can make the best of At this very moment of their psychological state, found the child on the existing problems, timely education, timely corrective, not the problem overnight, so that bad habits in the embryonic stage of the eradication. And kindergartens, schools, teachers faced with dozens of children, only for the children of this age stage for general education, that is, education groups, because of time and energy constraints, it is impossible to take care of each child's characteristics, Prone to the phenomenon of loss, or even to take care of the children of teachers and the poor do not have a sense of trust, and parents could guide their children promptly correct understanding. So parents of children to the correct family education so that children can enter kindergarten before forming a good habit, to accept collective education has laid a good foundation, can make up for the lack of mass education. Second, a good family education is the 21st century created the necessary conditions for personnel "China's 1990s development program for children" in the specified: "Today's children are the masters of the 21st century, child protection and the bottom-up development is to improve the quality of the population base, which is a prerequisite for development. The healthy growth of children Related to the future and destiny of the motherland. Improve the quality of the entire nation, from the start with children. "And:" In 2000 to make 90 percent of children (under the age of 14) of the parents to varying degrees, master conservation, education of children of knowledge. "This Top targeted the parents shoulders for the state created the heavy responsibility of the 21st century talents. Can this generation of children training to become Dezhitimei the all-round development of people, this country is Houjiyouren relationship to the Bainiantaiji. Fu-Lu Bell also said: "The country's fate is not so much lies in the hands of those in power, we might as well have said to be in the hands of his mother." This sentence is very philosophical, it profoundly understand the parents pick in the education of their children in The role played by. Parents should first clear direction of education and national interests, the people's request in line with the principle, the child can not be regarded as private property, it is necessary to establish the idea of the country, correct educational purposes. China's 21st century is what the situation, with the words of Comrade Deng Xiaoping, to make our country in the middle of the 21st century to achieve the level of moderately developed countries, per capita income reached 4,000 U.S. dollars, in gross national product amounted to 6 trillion U.S. dollars. The 21st century should be a good ideologies and noble moral character, and improve the psychological quality, positive spirit of cooperation with others, strong adaptability, Chikunailao the comprehensive development of the new generation. If the 21st century do not have such a group of high-quality builders is very difficult to complete this great, with such a quality is not overnight can do, and a good family education training is a prerequisite for high-quality people. Third, a good family education is a catalyst to optimize the children hearts Children from infancy into childhood, with age, from the family environment will eventually enter the small community, contact with the crowd outside the home, things. Lee Jia Choue those in society from time to time to enter the child's perspective, adults take isolation tactics will not work, because in the family video from different angles will continue to reflect the reality in today's society, issues both positive and negative have The. Children, especially young children lack a rational ability to distinguish right from wrong, but sensitive than adults have the feeling of capacity. They occurred around the kind of terrible things, sensitive, and this sensitivity training is the ability to rationally distinguish between a good basis, as parents should take advantage of this extension, help the children feel in this capacity on the basis of , The development of the social life of the ability to identify and psychological capacity, social filter information, optimize the hearts of young children. If parents in their daily life can be for young children is not strong capacity to accept the characteristics specific to seize the day-to-day chores, help children understand the community in identifying the Shishifeifei, specifically so that they feel Lee's bright side, Experience to the ugly despicable, can help children enhance the Yangshan Chuxie sense of justice, thus resist the dark side of the ugly soul of the child erosion. For example, today's video into the urban residents in almost every family, the children almost every day to deal with them, it can be said is not out of their homes, Bianzhi the world. Which can be received from all over the world all kinds of information. There are political situation, scientific and technological progress, ordinary people of Sushi, from which you can learn a lot of knowledge and understanding of major domestic and international events, both within and outside small home. It is inevitable that some homicide violence, obscene absurdity of the lens Yingru child's eyelid. Parents should address these issues timely guidance, to improve their children's ability to identify, we need to keep their own perceptions of behaviour, for their children establish a positive image, optimizing the hearts of children, the prevention of child make mistakes, and even violations of law and discipline. Family to work in this area, help small and stability of the environment. The family is society's cells, with healthy cells, can we have a sound body, the sick cells, the body will cause disease. As an ancient saying goes: "body repair and then home-and-then-State governance, rule of the then-world", "Qijia, the country, the world-the" point of view is that this truth. For this reason parents do a good job in optimizing the work of children's mental stability and social, stability and national power in ages. In short, as parents to the importance of family education fully and conscientiously do a good job in their children's education, make good parents responsibilities and obligations for the country to train qualified personnel in the building.

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